There comes a time when children request an addition to the family. Sometimes it’s another brother or sister, but more often than not, they’re asking for a pet.

Every child is different, but it’s vital your child learns responsibility before he can handle the care of an animal. Usually by second grade, children become more responsible because they are less ego-centric,more aware of others’ needs.

The choice of pet is up to you, of course. Various pets require different levels of monetary and physical care. Dogs need the most care while fish, the least. Dogs have veterinary and grooming costs; whereas, fish only need partial water changes, fish food, and a few neutralizing chemicals.

Walking a dog can be a fun family activity where everyone gets good exercise and fresh air. It’s also a great opportunity for conversation with your children. However, keep your climate in mind. If you get a lot of inclement weather, do you really want to be out there walking your dog?

Do you frequently go on vacation? A dog or cat will need a pet sitter or kennel. Guinea pigs and other small critters might need a pet sitter or an extended stay at a friend, neighbor, or relative’s house. Fish can just be given a vacation feeder, a big chunk of food they can nibble on while you’re away.

Only you can decide if your child is ready to take care of a pet on a regular basis—not just during the first few days. One way to determine this is add a few extra chores to your child’s list, such as washing dishes or dusting the furniture. Keep a log of chore accomplishments. Once she has maintained responsibility for a month or two, she is ready for a pet.

If you decide a pet is not a good fit for your family, be sure to explain why. If your apartment complex doesn’t allow certain pets, be sure to tell this to your child. If you think your child isn’t quite ready, be honest. Let her know that you are open to a pet in the future when she is capable of consistently completing chores without being reminded

Pets are a wonderful addition to a family. They often teach us many important things from unconditional love to mortality. While dealing with the death of a pet is difficult, it’s an important life lesson.

You may just find that you enjoy your child’s pet just as much as she does! Do you have any pet success (or failure) stories? Please leave me a comment.